Tag resilience

Celebrating 15 Years Drug-Free

15 years ago this August, I was addicted, homeless, had not a dollar to my name, and had hit rock bottom as my mental health and outlook on life had reached an all-time low. At that moment, I felt like…

Making Friends After 35

Making friends when you’re over 35 can be challenging. When we were kids, for most of us, finding at least a few people you got along with seemed fairly easy, because we were constantly surrounded by people our own age…

Connection and Community

Not long ago, a post of mine went viral. Within hours, my notifications were flooded, and buried among the likes and shares were comments that stopped me in my tracks. “OMG, I haven’t seen you in the longest time.” “Hey…

Fitting In With Myself

Belonging to yourself means more than belonging to anyone else. I remember going back to the house I grew up in, after my life had fallen apart, to spend time away from the mess I’d made of things. In those…

The Door I Left Open

On giving too much of myself, and the boundary I had to learn to set. I’ve been a caretaker for as long as I can remember. Anyone who has known me at any point in my life would tell you…

The View From Here

On stopping, opening up, and what I found when I finally had a moment to figure it out. By Mark Munroe I’m sitting at my desk in Valencia, looking out at the city on a warm, sunny morning, and I…

At Least I Tried

What the wins and losses actually taught me. With the fear included. By Mark Munroe I remember the feeling more than anything else. Not the specific day, not the exact sequence of events that led me there, but the feeling…